I met my husband at a Renaissance Faire, where he was with his camera taking wonderful shots, as always. He was a part of the Guild of the House of Boann, whose guild master was (and is) the celebrated Katheryn Matthews.
My two boys, Yousef and Omar, got into the Renaissance picture pretty quickly, dressing up and stepping out with me to play act with mom. Could there be anything better? I feel happy my children have learned to live as inheritors of two cultures.
When Yousef was a teen, he left beautiful, detailed,imaginative drawings scattered everywhere. Coming to live in America precisely at the moment he would enter high school was an amazing experience for him. He had never been allowed into a school with girls before (at least, not since kindergarten). All of his male cousins in Saudi Arabia were jealous. Besides architecture, Yousef enjoys art, traveling, bicycling, and meeting new people . He met his beautiful and creative wife, an artist who is currently studying medicine, in Arizona.
Omar is also artistic although computer programming is his passion. He prefers retro games–platform, 2-D. Like his brother, he is good at drawing and likes to put movies together. He put one together of himself dancing, when he was perfecting the shuffle. It got 6,000 views on Youtube, under the title Arabian Shuffle. That kind of dance can described as walking on air to electronic music. To me, the dance conveys the bridge between cultures that so many of us have crossed in our lifetimes:
A few years have passed since the picture with Uncle Steven to the left, and as for all of us, my family’s goals have changed a little–but not that much.
My father, Ray Simpson is a retired senior engineer from Philco-Ford, ex-marine, inventor and car enthusiast. He reads the L.A. Times book reviews every Sunday and then calls me to ask, “Why aren’t I reading about you in here?” His pride in my passion for writing is the best award a writer could ask for, especially from a father who has been reading interesting books all his life. Sadly, he hates that I am a Muslim.
I have enjoyed writing and teaching writing these past years, and I will enjoy it as long as God gives me life. Inshallah!
Julia! we share a friend and I have lost her contact…her name is Lisa Kaaki. I have a unique opportunity to be in Riyadh on the 18th March 23 , please if you re still in touch with her could you ask her to contact me ? Lisa and I were in college together in Nantes, France and we corresponded a while then lost contact. I have been searching the internet for a long time and came across you and a link with her.
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I hope she connected with you. Je lui ai donné le message. 🙂
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Julia, it is great to reconnect with you! I look forward to reading more of your thought provoking essays. We need more people that can build bridges between cultures in this world! T
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I think it is awesome.
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Hey.. I never knew any of your family life before you went to Saudi Arabia. That shuffling video is great although the very begining with the strobe effect makes me dizzy.
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